Dirty Dishes

and other negelected things

No Motor Vehicles

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Fence damaged during a southern Utah wild fire

For Chris, Forever Ago…

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Happy Anniversary and Thank You for making this quote-a-day calendar true.

I love you.

Things haven’t changed that much in the last year and a half

“Fuck You, and Merry Christmas!”

–Badger, age 7 (after making an awesome kill on Nazi Zombies video game)

Favorite Quote of the Day

“Mom, you are the Best Mom in the Universe.  That is if there are other planets in the universe with highly intelligent animals on them.  If not, Best in the World isn’t bad.”

–Badger, age 7

Sunset over Great Salt Lake

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9.16.09

It’s funny how time keeps on going.

How I can stop writing but everything still moves  even though I’m no longer keeping a record of it.  How my kids are getting older, despite the hundreds of times I’ve hugged them and asked them to stop.

And they have done and said so many funny things in the past year and a half that would make Chris look at me and say, “And you quit blogging.”

I can’t remember any of those things.  I only remember the fact that I was NOT going to remember them.  That makes me sad.

And I decided that since I can’t make them stop growing, the least I can do is remember what it was like when they were.   Not just for me, but also for them.  Because who better to help tell your story than someone that watched and made it happen?

So ,my midgets, this is for you as much as for me… so that time wont diminish what I did with my life or yours.

Leo predicts the future

“I think I’d be well suited for a career in stand up comedy”
-Leo, age 10

Ten

Happy Birthday Leo

Hello, My Friend. Hello.

Oh, hai! I am alive, and finally crawling out from under my rock to tell you all that I’m taking a hiatus from blobbing. As if you didn’t know. Sheesh.

I am fine. The kids are fine. Chris is fine. The zoo of animals we have in the house are all fine(except for Luke the goldfish. Dead. And Luigi the hermit crab. Dead.) and stinking up the place very nicely.

Last fall I found out that all my in-laws, immediate and extended, were also writing blogs on blogger. Shocking, I know. They finally found the Internet, and the joy of personal publishing. Welcome to the new millennium. Their blogs were mostly about crafting, and their kids, and their new home business, and how much they love the Mormon church. And when I found this out, my brain, my voice, my desire to write, all went dead. I don’t have a good reason why. Maybe I felt like I had said all I had to say, that I had already put out there everything I needed to, and I could take a break. Mostly I think I felt like George in that one Seinfeld episode where he’s talking to his mom about dating. She had split from George’s dad, and was talking about how she was ‘out there’ looking for someone else. And George says something like, You are not out there because I am out there and if I see you out there, there isn’t enough voltage in the universe to electroshock me back into coherence. Yep, that’s how I felt.

So anyway, I’m finally getting around to saying goodbye, if there are any of you that still stop by to check on me. I may some day find my voice again. But for now I’m enjoying the silence.

Understanding different relationship models

Sunny and her friend are playing with an old doll house. Being the little girls that they are, their world revolves around little furry creatures, so the tenants of this doll house are not a happy Mother, Father, and four small children with smiles permanently affixed to their plastic faces. No. Those figures have been tossed aside, and the house is owned by two small plastic dogs.

Sunny’s dog is a boy, and the friends dog is a girl. The friend is very anxious for the two dogs to be married and not living in plastic sin.

Sunny very wisely states: “Gosh NO! They are NOT married. They love each other and they just connect really well. But they aren’t married.”